As parents, it would give us the greatest of pleasures to see our children grow up to be kind, good-hearted individuals. But how exactly does one human being teach another to be kind?
Being kind ourselves is one way. In our children’s eyes, our every word and action is scrutinized and magnified for future reference. If we are kind to others, our children would take that as a cue and practice kindness as well. Another way is by giving our children opportunities to practice kindness. After all, one of the best ways to learn something is to actually start doing it.
Ginger Roxas-Arzt, mom of two and board member of Childhope Asia Philippines, shares a number of activities which she and her husband enjoy doing with their kids while imparting the values of compassion and kindness. Childhope Asia Philippines is a non-stock, non-government, and non-profit organization that has been working to ensure the welfare of Filipino street children for more than two decades.
For starters, Ginger takes them along to kid-friendly outreach experiences. She says, “My St. Scho batchmates were to assist in a dental mission at a DSWD center for abused kids. I brought my then 5-year-old son to meet them and help hand out dental kits. When a cat-loving friend celebrated her birthday at a cat shelter, I took him along to assist in prep work and he learned that pets need help too. During Yolanda, we brought them to San Antonio Church to help pack relief goods.”
Ginger also gives her children carefully curated and age appropriate books, which are mostly focused on loving adventure and knowledge and building friendships, and involves them in celebrations by letting them write thank you notes and wrap presents for birthday celebrants.
She adds, “We give them simple ways to help others… When we do spring cleaning, we have a bag for sharing gently used books, toys, and clothes to friends.”
Childhope Asia Director Chips Guevara and Mommy Mundo Founder Janice Villanueva
Kindness Cans
In partnership with Mommy Mundo, Childhope Asia Philippines gives parents a wonderful opportunity to teach their children how to care for others by creating meaningful experiences through its Kindness Campaign.
Childhope’s Kindness Campaign is sheer genius in its simplicity. It starts off with just three cans, which will henceforth be called Kindness Cans. Parents are encouraged to label recycled jars or cans with the following tags—SAVE, SPEND, and SHARE—and invite their children to fill up the cans with change from their daily allowance.
The SAVE can builds the idea of setting aside money for the future. The SPEND can serves as a fund for things and experiences they want to enjoy. The SHARE can is for bringing joy to others.
By using everyday objects such as jars and cans, the concepts of charity and financial stewardship are made easier for children to understand.
“We just started our son on the Kindness Cans a couple of months ago primarily because he has been asking for an allowance since his 6th birthday,” says Ginger.
“Coming from a strong belief in nurturing altruism in kids, I wanted to add a charity element to it and asked my husband if we could use the Childhope Kindness Cans. After computing it, we decided on 10 percent as his weekly contribution to his SHARE can. He puts 100 in his SAVE, 100 in SPEND, and 20 in his SHARE can. Every month he gets a 1 percent interest back for savings, a very basic lesson in finance and philanthropy,” she says.
After 30 days of filling up the SHARE can, the families will be invited to participate in a Childhope sharing activity of their choice:
* Join one of Childhope Asia’s feeding programs. Childhope Asia provides educational and welfare services to street children from Tuesday to Saturday. It also gives the little ones a meal. Your family can sponsor the meal for any one of these days.
* Celebrate a family member’s birthday with street children. Let your children select the food and treats to be included. Seeing the smile on the street kids’ faces as they eat spaghetti and play games will certainly warm everybody’s heart.
* Use the SHARE fund to make care packages for street kids. The package may include clothes, slippers, toiletries, toys, and books.
Of course, Childhope Asia will be more than happy to receive donations of old toys, clothes, books, school supplies, and other gently used items. Encourage your children to participate in their quarterly garage sale, and they’ll see how their pre-loved clothes, toys, and books maybe used to help others.
But nothing will be as powerful for you and your children as participating in Childhope’s various activities. As young volunteers, your children can assist in weekend feeding programs, story-telling sessions, and fundraising events. By immersing themselves in such activities, your children will experience the wonderful feeling which kindness brings both to the giver and the receiver.
Ginger says, “The most important part of all this is finding fun and relatable ways to convey the values we want to impart: teaching through play and action, and letting my kids realize they can make an impact with simple acts of kindness. Definitely, being part of Childhope is a big inspiration as a parent. My kids don’t only have the chance to help in their own way, they have the chance to meet the kids they are helping and see how they can really transform even just one kid’s life and give him a better future.”
Childhope has ready-made Kindness Cans for busy moms and dads to purchase and use immediately. Contact Mylene Lagman at 561-7118 or email childhopeasia@yahoo.com for more information.
Mommy Mundo will be accepting filled up Kindness Cans at the Mommy Mundo Headquarters at Fun Ranch in Frontera Verde, Pasig City and at Expo Mom happening May 22 to 24 at the Glorietta Activity Center in Makati City. Donations in cash or kind are also most welcome.
For more information about Childhope, go to http://childhope.hope.org.ph/
Morning, I would like to know more about your program and how to join it. Thank you and Good Day!!